8 Best Sex Toys for Seniors in 2025

They say "Youth is wasted on the young" - but ask anyone who's reached middle age or above how old they feel in their heads, and most will tell you they feel like they never left their twenties. In fact, a study into the sexual activity of older adults revealed that two-thirds of people aged 65-80 were interested in sex - and 50% said that sex was important to their quality of life.

So, with plenty of willing participants, we know that sex is alive and well in the "seniors" age group. Whether you're flying solo or you're part of a couple looking to spice things up, we've got a list of beautifully designed sex toys that offer the kind of features that make sex play as simple and fun as it was in your heyday.

One of the best things anyone can do to increase their enjoyment while using a sex toy is to ensure they use plenty of lubricant. If you are reading this and think you don’t really need to use lube, we urge you to think again. Many of the sex toys on our list rely on a decent daub of lubricant to create a realistic feeling; without it, you could end up having quite a rough ride, and nobody wants that.

How we put this guide together

We've considered a series of factors before deciding on the toys that are suitable for this list - many that are specific to the needs of older sex toy users. They include:

• Ease of Use: Simple controls, large buttons, and intuitive operation.
• Ergonomic Design: Comfortable to hold, lightweight, easy to grip, and suitable for limited dexterity.
• Enhanced Stimulation: Powerful vibrations or sensations to counteract reduced sensitivity.
• Assistance with Erectile Function: Cock rings and vacuum pumps may help maintain erections.
• Comfortable Fit: Adjustable size options for toys like penis rings and sleeves.
• Discreet Use: Quiet toys for privacy, with discreet designs and packaging.
• Compatibility with Lubricants: Compatibility with water-based or silicone-based lubricants for comfort.
• Easy Maintenance: Toys that are easy to clean and store, preferably waterproof or water-resistant.
• Health and Safety: Made from body-safe, hypoallergenic materials.

Best Sex Toys for Seniors in 2025: Our Recommendations

Man Wand Vibrating Male Masturbator

However old you are, if you've got a penis (and even if you haven't), this is a great sex toy. It's taken our Best Male Vibrator for Seniors in 2025 because it packs a great punch, is multi-use, has a nice broad, easy-grip handle, and is incredibly simple to use. Regarding the sensations it delivers, you can choose whether to apply its uniquely shaped winged head (similar to the Manta by Fun Factory toys) to the penis head or frenulum or as a more typical stroker up and down the length of the penis (with an appropriate application of water-based lubricant, of course).

The Man Wand is a high-quality product made from long-lasting medical-grade silicone, and it's 100% water-resistant, so it's very easy to clean. Within its wide range of power settings and vibration patterns, it covers everything from low and rumbly stimulation to intensely powerful vibration.

Operation-wise, the broad, ridged handle makes it easy to grip; it only has three buttons, and one of those turns it on and off. While the unique, softer, U-shaped flaps provide a nice tickling sensation to get things moving, there are plenty of deep rumble options, ideal for edging, and a truly buzzy vibe to maximize stimulation.

While it makes a great solo-play sex toy, it's the perfect playmate for couples who love to share their toys. If you flip the toy around, it looks just like any of the ball-shaped female sex wands on the market, so it's perfect for everyone and anyone's genitals. If you can get into the right position, you can both experience its buzz, getting you worked up together.

There are some super little touches, too; for example, it comes with its own storage pouch that makes it easy to store with your other silicone toys and a discreet way to take it on your travels. Also, the neck is flexible, so it's great for all-over body massage sessions in the bedroom or the shower.

Vibrators weren't originally designed as sex toys but as medical aids, as this study reveals. It highlights that "vibratory stimulation has evidence-based support for the treatment of erectile dysfunction, ejaculatory dysfunction and anorgasmia ... is positively correlated with increased sexual desire and overall sexual function ... has also shown benefit for sexual arousal difficulties and pelvic floor dysfunction."

A toy that features powerful vibrations—as the Man Wand does—caters to all these areas while still providing sensation, aiding performance and enjoyment as the penis loses sensitivity.

Results From Our Testers

• Not many toys work so well on men and women
• A very versatile toy and great for sharing
• Easy to hold and operate
• It makes a great addition to oral sex
• Good range of patterns and power
• An excellent foreplay and edging toy
• Its fluttery wings are fairly unique, and it's good fun exploring new ways to use them
• You can feel the most powerful settings through your hand, which, for some, might not be ideal for longer sessions
• Rotating through so many patterns can be confusing to get to your favorite

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Fleshlight Original Pink Lady Male Masturbator

Masturbation cups are a great way to add stamina training to your solo or partner play, and for our best in 2025, we're heading straight for the OG and leaders in the field. Fleshlight has traded on providing high-quality toys with an exceptional range nobody can match since day one. Our recommendation for senior sex players is the Original Pink Lady—the first Fleshlight ever released. It's safe, simple, and easy to hold and use, and given it's completely manual, there's very little to get wrong: lube up and let fly—it couldn't be simpler.

For anyone losing a little sensitivity or experiencing premature ejaculation, this male masturbator is an ideal option for building stamina while simulating partnered sex. One of the most popular methods is to wedge it in between a bed base and mattress so you get to use all the pelvic floor muscles that you'd use during sex. Match that with edging for prolonged periods, and you've got yourself a training plan.

So, now we know how they can benefit older guys, what do they feel like? This version has the simplest, smooth canal, which helps to provide longer-lasting, less stimulating sessions—perfect for edging and stamina training—yet it still feels authentic due to the quality of the Fleshlight's TPE blend. Our testers had mixed opinions about the smooth canal and the size, but all agreed that it helped the user last longer. For the senior with stamina training on their mind and looking for a nice big toy that's easy to grip, that's just what they'll get. Despite its smooth canal, the Fleshlight allows you to mix things up with its suction cap at the end of the case, providing pressure variation as you progress through your session.

For users who don't need that kind of training and are looking for a toy purely to enhance their solo or partnered play, they might like to explore the dozens of alternative textured sleeves, matching the size, squeeze, and stimulation levels to their desires.

Regarding its size, we had a mix of opinions: some felt it was a little big for the average penis, and others thought it was a little tight—while most said it delivered a nice snug-fitting, firm squeeze during testing. We think it's an appropriate size for most users, but it's worth checking its specifications if you're a little bigger or smaller than average.

Results From Our Testers

• Despite being the original and being around for decades, it's still a fun toy
• Fleshlight's TPE material is very soft and realistic
• The sleeve holds heat well, and warming it before use (in hot water) adds realism to masturbation sessions
• Using a smooth masturbator allows for long-lasting sessions and incredible orgasms
• A great toy for sensitive penises
• The removable, stretchy sleeve makes cleaning a breeze
• The suction control allows for variation and added realism for simulating blow jobs

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

6-inch Ultra Realistic Dual Density Hollow Strap On for Men

Pipedream's Fantasy X-Tensions Elite 6" hollow silicone strap-on takes our Best Penis Sleeve for Seniors in 2025, and here's why. For anyone experiencing erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation at any level, a penis sleeve allows the wearer to continue enjoying penetrative sex, whatever the quality of their erection or however soon they climax. That's a win for the wearer's confidence, a win for partner satisfaction, and a huge win for maintaining intimacy and a satisfying sex life.

This model is a great size and looks extremely realistic, with plenty of attention to fine details. It's held securely in place by an adjustable harness, and using Pipedream's premium dual-density elite silicone, it's solid where it needs to be yet still soft to the touch. In fact, it's solid enough to be worn by someone without a penis, so if swapping toys is your thing, you and your partner are onto a winner with this one.

For our senior sex players, apart from the traditional ED and PE benefits of using a penis sleeve, this model has a good-sized base around the dildo itself, so it's easy to handle, put on, and adjust. The harness is adjustable with a simple strap system, which many prefer to elastic one-size-fits-all options, and again, is easy to put on and adjust.

Its beauty is in its clever use of material. Not only is Pipedream's Elite Silicone non-reactive and safe for sensitive skin, but it feels nice and soft on the inside of the dildo for the wearer's pleasure, and the soft squishy head, realistic veiny texture, and appearance provide a realistic and stimulating ride for the receiver.

A good dose of lube inside and outside the dildo will ensure the ideal glide and sensations for both partners and the only thing our testers questioned boiled down to each user's personal needs. This model is considered the average erection size, at 6", which was ideal for most of our testers. For those on the receiving end, who, given the choice, prefer a bigger penis, they'd have liked a little bit more. If you're in that camp, why not dive into the other dildos in Pipedream's Fantasy X-Tensions range and test-drive some of their bigger options?

Results From Our Testers

• The coloring and detail of the penis looked as realistic as dildos get
• It felt good for both partners, inside and out
• The harness is comfortable to wear and keeps the dildo locked in place even when sex gets a bit wild
• The wearer can keep pleasuring their partner for as long as they need, with no need to worry about early climaxes or loss of erection
• It's a great option for maintaining the intimacy of penetrative sex and satisfaction for couples facing performance issues

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Lynk Pleasure Automatic Precision Electric Penis Pump

This model takes our senior's penis pump crown for 2025 because of its simplicity, efficiency, and value. With four preset pressure programs, single-hand use, and a nice clear LCD display, you'll soon become an expert with very little practice. As far as value for money goes, this is one of the few electric models available for under $60. Its quality and construction make it an even better deal, as its features and materials are those you'd expect from much higher-priced models.

Penis pumps are one of the few medically recommended drug-free methods of improving penis performance and erection quality. This study states, "Vacuum erection devices (VED) are associated with high rates of patient and partner satisfaction (mean 77% for both patients and partners) and are an effective and low-cost treatment option for select men with ED."

A nice side effect of opening up those capillaries and enhancing the blood flow throughout the penis is a boost in size, which is why many users without erectile issues buy their pumps in the first place.

Its simple operation revolves around two buttons that scroll through the four preset pressures. The plus button starts at the lowest setting, increasing to the next pressure with each press, and the minus button takes you back to the previous lower setting. The minus button slowly releases air as it returns to the lower pressure. If, at any point, you feel there's too much pressure on your penis, the quick-release button lets it all out immediately, allowing you to start again from zero.

The plastic cylinder is an appropriate thickness and quality, given just how inexpensive this model is for an automatic electric pump. Despite being quite durable, it may break if dropped, so use care when handling it, especially with slippy hands from applying lube. Its manufacturers have added a raised etched diamond pattern that helps add grip, but if there's a lot of lube on your hands, it makes sense to take extra care. The cylinder also features a measuring gauge in metric and imperial units so you can monitor the progress of each session as it happens.

The sleeve diameter is 0.75" and quite stretchy; however, some of our testers found it a little tight as their penis expanded to its enhanced girth. Most of our testers found the sleeve to work well, though, and a comfortable fit. They also found the first two settings powerful enough for a good workout and the latter options very strong indeed.

Moving away from the traditional manual hand pump makes penis pumps far easier to operate and with far less fuss. This model delivers the power and pressure you need to enhance your penis health and performance while keeping everything nice and simple. This is a great option for seniors to build the quality of their erections—or anyone else, for that matter.

Results From Our Testers

• Soft silicone sleeve, but check the size for bigger penises
• For the best experience, use plenty of water-based lubricant
• Simple, single-handed operation
• Easy USB charging
• Long battery life on a full charge
• Disassembles into separate parts for easy clean-up
• An exceptional value electric pump for erection growth and training

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Lynk Pleasure Loop XL Silicone Cock Ring Kit

These are our favorite cock rings for just about everybody. What makes them great for seniors is what makes them great for everyone else; they're bigger, better, easier to handle, and they're softer, spongier, and kinder on your penis than traditional cock rings.

If you've never come across cock rings before (or constriction rings as they're also known), they're designed to slide over your penis, sit at its base and prevent the blood in your erection from flowing back out. Keeping the blood in the penis helps to maintain erections or enhance them, and a nice tight grip at the base of the penis or behind the testicles can also help prolong sexual performance and prevent premature ejaculation.

These oversized and super-soft rings are perfect for anyone experiencing erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation, but that's not all.

Without a doubt, longer-lasting sex and harder erections enhance the pleasure of sex and greater orgasms. For senior users, the added size makes them easier to put on and pull off, they're designed not to pinch, pull, or scratch, and also, they're far less likely to get stuck in pubic hair, making removal a pain-free process.

Apart from during sex, one of the other main uses for cock rings is during penis pumping. A vacuum pump continually draws blood into the penis, and partnering them with a cock ring helps keep that blood exactly where it needs to be. By stretching the ring over the base of the cylinder before inserting the penis, it rolls easily from the cylinder and onto the penis and into the perfect position.

And, to top it all off, they're made from the highest-grade medical liquid silicone, so they're kind on even the most sensitive skin.

Results From Our Testers

• The larger size makes them easier to handle
• Using one, two, or all three rings simultaneously allows for additional restriction at the base or on different points of the penis
• The super-soft silicone is ideal for senior users with sensitive skin
• Holds blood in the penis for stronger erections
• Used under the testicles can help delay orgasm
• Fully waterproof, so perfect for bath and shower play
• Recommended use with lubrication for the easiest way to put them on
• Their thicker construction allows them to be used as buffers to protect receivers from 'too big' penises

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Dr Skin Stud Muffin Realistic Anal Dildo

Our number one dildo for seniors in 2025 is manufactured by Blush Novelties, but don't let the term novelty fool you—or the cheesy name—this is a great toy for beginners and experienced users alike.

This toy looks and feels pretty realistic, with plenty of detail and ridges around the penis head to deliver sensation on entry and as it slides up and down inside the anus or vagina. What makes it great for our senior users is its safe material construction and its incredibly efficient suction cup base.

For anyone with a weak grip, this toy sticks to just about any smooth surface. That makes it ideal for hands-free solo play. It's also a great toy to use in a harness with a suitable O ring, making it perfect for pegging and power-play sex. And unlike other anal dildos with more conventional handles, this model lets you mimic the feeling of a pair of firm balls slapping against your butt.

While the 8.5" size on the packaging might cause concern among some users, it's actually based on the average-sized erect penis, with an insertable length of just over six inches. The total 8.5" includes the base and testicles, so if you're specifically looking for a big toy to fill you up, don't let the size on the pack of this toy fool you.

If you're the kind of couple who like to share their toys, this is a great option. For women, it brings double-entry fun into the bedroom, and as we said earlier, it's an ideal toy for pegging—just make sure you clean it thoroughly before switching user or using it in a new orifice.

We love the realistic details on this dildo, and despite being made from PVC, it's good and stiff enough to hold shape and yet still soft enough in places you want it to be—just remember it's an average penis size and not the bigger 8.5" its total marketed length makes it sound.

Results From Our Testers

• Realistic details, size, and shape
• Safe, non-porous, medical-grade PVC
• Easy to clean and fully waterproof for bath and shower play
• Its firm construction helps for the most passionate and active dildo riding, yet its soft outer still feels quite realistic
• The suction base sticks to almost every smooth surface you could want it to
• The average size might suit older women better than larger models

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Jesse Jane Realistic Sideways Laying Masturbator

For our older seniors, picking out the perfect position can help boost performance, so when it comes to solo play and sex toys, wouldn't it be great if you could find one that allows you to stay in a position that puts the least pressure on your body?

Well, now you can. Sideways spooning takes all the pressure of arms and knees, and with that in mind, we're giving our Best Sex Doll For Seniors in 2025 crown to XR Brands' Jesse Jane Realistic Side Action Masturbator.

While you may think its compact, slightly smaller than lifesize would make it feel less true-to-life, its shape, weight, and real-flesh Cyberskin TPE material make it a thoroughly realistic masturbator. Whether you're a senior or just like a lazy side-on session, this sex doll delivers both easy operation and plenty of pleasure, and its smaller size makes it easier to move, store, and clean than larger sex dolls and hip masturbators.

Apart from its incredibly realistic skin feel, its vaginal and anal canals are suitably sized and textured (both different, as you'd expect a vagina and a butt to be), and both are open-ended tunnels so you can play with the suction and pressure.

Another reason you won't have to make any strenuous movements is that you can use silicone-based lube with it. While water-based options work well, silicone lubes tend to last longer, so there's no rolling off to re-apply or reactivate. That said, if you're generous with the lube to get a really slippery and wet ride, you probably won't need to do either of those.

This is a great lazy ride sex doll for anyone, but for our senior solo lovers out there, it will help them conserve all their energy for the ride. Why splash out thousands of dollars on a fully positionable life-size doll when you can spend a little more than a hundred bucks on something that fits in your dresser drawer?

Results From Our Testers

• A well-thought-out sex doll for mimicking sideways sex positions
• The TPE material gives a very realistic feeling
• The design and weight of the doll kept it firmly in place during passionate poundings
• Its design is practically unique throughout the sex doll market
• The vagina offers a relaxed standard-sized ride, whereas the anal canal is nice and tight

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Lelo Loki Prostate Multi-Speed Massager

There are a lot of prostate massagers on the market, so why does the Lelo Loki take our senior crown in 2025? Lelo makes beautiful and incredibly well-designed high-end sex toys. If you're concerned about materials and construction for use against the most sensitive skin, you're in the safest hands. The Loki has no seams, and the high-grade silicone is so soft you'll want to keep stroking it even when you're not using it.

As far as pleasure goes, its ergonomic design pushes its tip right at the prostate. With a powerful, rumbly, growling motor positioned just below the tip, it delivers its intense sensations precisely where you want them. It's so good you can feel them in your perineum as they carry down into its flared base.

This is a top-class toy that's got sophistication written all over it, which will provide a level of confidence often required from senior users. While the buttons might not be the easiest to locate for anyone with arthritis, tendonitis, or other hand or finger issues, the Loki's sensible-sized handle offers simple operation for the intense and powerful sensations it delivers.

Speaking of pleasure and performance, you can rotate through Loki's six preset patterns using the handle's up and down buttons. When you turn it on, it always starts with its lowest 'constant vibration' setting; then it moves onto 'pulse,' 'faster pulse,' 'ascending,' 'oscillation,' and finally a random 'varying pulse pattern.' Find your favorite and then play with the + and – buttons that increase and decrease the intensity until you find your perfect pace and pattern.

One thing our testers noted was that this is a nice wide toy, so beginners may want to ease into inserting it. However, its smooth surface and pointy tip help it to slide in, as will a healthy application of water-based lube, and its narrow base prevents any stretching of the anus entrance once it's in place.

While this is a manual massage toy, you can get away with using it hands-free once you've found your preferred settings. However, if you do let go, the Loki will occasionally try to turn itself around on some settings, so it's worth experimenting with. There's an advantage to holding on, too; it allows you to add more pressure to the prostate as you would with most manual massagers.

Results From Our Testers

• The ergonomic design ensures the pointed tip is directed right at the prostate
• It's nice and girthy for a fuller feeling
• Very luxurious, soft touch, medical-grade silicone
• While Lelo claims to have the most powerful toys on the market, that's a bold claim, although the Loki is powerful and rumbly enough to satisfy most users
• The overall packaging, presentation, look, feel, and operation are just what you'd expect from a high-end luxury brand like Lelo
• With 6 pattern modes, there's something for everyone
• The random 'varying pulse mode' pattern is a great option for mixing things up
• Going hands-free, it occasionally tries to rotate and flip itself around

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

How to Choose the Best Sex Toy if You’re a Senior

Before you choose your preferred toys, you need to consider what you want and need from them. What turns you on and stimulates you sexually can mean using a specific type of toy, so a little research up front goes a long way.

1. Think about ease of use

We're all made differently, and any issues we face as we age will be unique to us. Whether we struggle with grip, mobility, posture, or breathing, choosing a toy that delivers despite those challenges plays its part in the right toy for the user.

Do you need a wider handle, easier grip, something that requires less energy and movement? Do you need something that will work with a softer penis, something with more powerful sensations to combat lower sensitivity, or something you can use sitting in a chair or lying in the bath?

As our article shows, there are options for every type of stimulation and situation, so consider all the options that might work for you, and you'll soon come across your perfect toy.

2. Choose an ergonomic design

Ergonomic design doesn't just look good; it's there to help. Choosing a toy that's shaped to make grip and operation easier or to hit those golden spots that bring out tears of utter joy is what makes clever design effective and not just attractive.

Ergonomic grips, big prominent buttons, and simplified or remote controls (perfect for hands-free sex play) can help anyone with arthritic hands and wrists and should also help keep the vibrations where they're meant to be and not in your fingers and hands.

3. Decide if you need help countering ED

Erectile dysfunction is prevalent in many seniors, so finding the toys that help navigate the problem is something many seniors will be interested in. For solo play, you don't necessarily need an erection to climax, albeit preferential, so considering vibrators that surround and stimulate the glans are great options.

Cases of ED can be navigated (as this 2024 review shows) with toys that promote better erections, such as penis pumps, cock rings, prostate massagers and butt plugs, or anything that gets you more turned on and the blood pumping. Again, each body is unique, so experimenting with what works best for you should be part of your senior sex plan.

4. Think about whether being discreet is important

Depending on your living situation, discretion could be very important. Manual toys are silent, whereas vibrators and some prostate massagers and penis pumps have powerful motors that might need more than the radio playing or a tap running to mask their rumbles and buzzing.

5. Consider ease of maintenance

Most toys are designed with easy care and upkeep in mind. However, if your hands aren't as strong or flexible as they were, handling small parts, carrying out intricate cleaning practices, or managing large or awkward connectors or components can be problematic.

Waterproof toys are easiest to submerge and flush out or those that disassemble easily make maintenance a breeze, making these great options.

6. Think about increased skin sensitivity

As we age, our bodies and skin become more sensitive, so paying a little extra for body-safe materials—and that goes for lubrication and toys—is worth consideration. Taking care of fragile skin can help prevent rashes and painful reactions to various chemicals and keep you sexually active without any uncomfortable disturbances to your sex play routine.

Summary

It doesn't matter how old you are; sex is part of life, and you deserve to enjoy it for as long as you want to. It's one of the important ways we connect with our partners; it's how we create and maintain intimacy, and, let's be honest, it feels great. Given how we can explore every which way we might like that to happen—right at our fingertips—picking out the sex toys that cater to our strengths and weaknesses is a simple way to enjoy sexual pleasure without concern or worry.

Whether penetrative sex is on the table or not, sex toys add easy ways to induce pleasure and help deliver the heady orgasms we all deserve to feel—and with the ergonomic design and easy-to-use operation toys in our list, you could be feeling twenty-one again in no time.